...what it's like here daily? I've had many friends who've lived overseas and they've expressed consternation at the inability to describe their lives to us back home. Well, I'm going to attempt it.
When you move to a new place you have to rent a place and furnish it. To buy furniture here at a reasonable price you
head to the “balad” a.k.a. downtown. It’s literally the part of town that is
down in the valley between a number of the hills. Along the two streets of the
downtown area is a Roman amphitheater and a number of small stores selling a
cacophony of different products. There’s an area at one end where a number of
small shops sells new and used furniture. You walk past these stores, feigning
indifference while trying to assess quality and style. As soon as a shopkeeper
notices you showing interest you’re in for some coaxing, cajoling and
bargaining. Once you’ve agreed on a price (possibly over some tea) then you
hire one of the many drivers hanging around with their trucks. In your limited
Arabic you need to direct them to the store (more likely many stores) where you
purchased furnishings and then need to get him to your house. Sometimes they
feel as though they haven’t been paid enough to actually help you move it in
the house and are disgusted that you don’t have people there to help you move
it in.
Even if you do something very Western and purchase
your appliances at a Walmart type store, there’s a very good chance that you’ll
still haggle about the price and that the credit card machine will not be
working that day. You’ll have to try and call your credit card company a half a
world away and explain to them that you sent them all the right paperwork and
you are REALLY living overseas and to please, please, PLEASE not freeze your
credit card every time you use it in a foreign country.
Tired yet?
That’s a brief snapshot of what we did multiple days in a row to get the
basic furnishings needed for our place.
Now, let’s talk about lighting. When you move into
an unfurnished place, the light fixtures are not included. Luckily, we moved
into the neighborhood where many of the light stores are located. The
shopkeepers in the Middle East believe that the best placement for their store
is right next to the exact same kind of store. So, our area has streets upon
streets of light stores. Over the last
week we’ve bought one “fancy” light fixture and two basic fixtures. Since we don’t
know any electricians (and wouldn’t know how to direct him to our house or
explain what exactly we needed done), J installed the lights himself. No, he’d
never done it before and thankfully didn’t electrocute himself in the process.
My guess is that many of my posts in the near
future will be trying to give you a taste of the different kind of normal we
encounter here.
